Climbing Trees

My uncle Jerry taught me how to climb a tree. I was about four years old, maybe a little younger, and a big willow stood near my grandmother’s house. It had to have been over a hundred years old. My uncle and his siblings had climbed it themselves when they were my age. He showed me where all the footholds were on the trunk and which branches were sturdy enough for me to use to pull myself up into the tree. I remember feeling confident and proud of myself. I remember watching the sunset there with Uncle Jerry. After that, anytime I was outside, I was climbing trees.

Now, one of my favorite things to do as a teacher at All Seasons is to help children learn how to climb trees.

Climbing challenges children both physically and mentally. Each ascent requires them to assess their abilities, take calculated risks, and confront their fears. As they reach new heights, they experience a surge of confidence, realizing they are capable of more than they thought. Even if they stumble or fall, the lesson of resilience - getting back up and trying again — becomes ingrained. These experiences are invaluable, teaching them that failure is not the end but rather a stepping stone to success.

Climbing trees fosters a deep connection to the environment. Children learn to appreciate the feel of the bark, the sounds of the leaves, and the way the sun shines through the branches. Children can also practice social skills while climbing including teamwork, communication, and empathy. Their shared experiences can create lasting memories and strengthen relationships.

Teaching climbing has provided me with numerous metaphors for life. When you're up in the tree, everything looks different. Guiding children as they climb not only demonstrates that they can rely on me for support and encouragement, but also teaches them to trust their own instincts and grow from their experiences. Losing their balance on a fragile branch teaches children to make wiser choices next time and learn from their mistakes. It encourages them to push their limits and step out of their comfort zones.

The memory of my uncle teaching me to climb that tree is one of the few I have of him. He passed away shortly after. It's a cherished memory, and I'm grateful for the lesson he imparted to me. After his passing, I feel fortunate to carry on his teachings at All Seasons.